EMDR Relational

EMDR Relational Advanced Style

EMDR is the use of an eye movement method and a set of protocols to help desensitize clients to the effects of trauma. It is research evidenced and NICE recommended for PTSD and trauma work. Basic EMDR is a very simple process which is used by both psychotherapists and “EMDR Practitioners” who have completed a basic therapist training.

Relational EMDR is an advanced model of EMDR combined with relational therapy, and is used for mode complex trauma and relational cases where life events of a traumatic nature have made significant negative impacts on the development of the client.

There is a huge about of overlap between trauma processing methods from analytical hypnotherapy and “trauma runs”, parts work and NLP resource anchoring based trauma processing. Stuart is not an “EMDR Practitioner” (a specific stand alone training route). Stuart is a psychotherapist and hypnotherapist with CPD Relational EMDR training and provides relational analytical hypnotherapy processes almost indistinguishable from EMDR.

Is EMDR a new therapy?

EMDR was developed by Shapiro after she noticed that eye movement helped her to manage negative recall from her own trauma. Investigation and research has indicated that this is because eye movement replicates the phenomenon of rapid eye movement that we experience as part of sleep. Thus the method mimics the restorative, processing and memory modifications of a natural sleep cycle, but on demand.

NLP eye processing cues predate EMDR and are very similar, and many of the associated protocols of EMDR application are simply taken from existing psychotherapy methods.

EMDR therefore represents a very useful new tool for psychotherapists to use, but is really just an additional adaptation of existing knowledge. The 7 stage protocols draw heavily from counselling interviewing, mindfulness and psycho-education.

Stages of Classic EMDR, brief 8 stage breakdown with therapy comparisons:

Stage 1: Taking a History of the client case. (used in all therapies)

Stage 2: Preparation

  • Safe Place
  • Containment
  • Moments of feeling loved / safe (resource anchor)
  • Moments successful or competent (resource anchor)
  • Imagined allies (Protector, Wise figure, Totem Animal, Angel)
    These stages are all used in analytical hypnosis processing

Stage 3: Develop Target

  • “Light up” the neural network by following the somatic or emotional triggers.
  • Identify “Touchstone Target” – seek memory associated
  • “Floatback” or “Affect Bridge” process, seek even earlier memory
  • “Set up Target”, client describes image and event using multiple sensory descriptions. Include old belief, validity of belief and modified beliefs / cognition. Normally rank the level of each.
    These stages are all used in NLP processing

Stage 4: Desensitisation with EMDR

    • Eye movement, finger movement or other bilateral movement
    • Reorientation back to now protocols of too intense, or pendulating between image and resources.
      Similar stages are used in NLP and traditional hypnosis inductions
  • This is done within window of tolerance of the client, avoiding “flooding” or over-stimulation, and only working to client’s tolerance level.
  • Clients with disassociation may not tolerate typical bilateral stimulation and may need alternatives.

EMDR is not a magic / rapid cure and should only be used to the tolerance level of the client.

Stage 5: installation of positives

  • Embody positive state, install new positive interpretations and beliefs (historical collapsing anchor in NLP, reframing in hypnosis)

Stage 6: Body Scan

  • Mindfulness process

Stage 7: Closure

  • Resource, contain, possibly Light Stream (from hypnosis / visualisation)

Stage 8: Re-evaluation

  • Review, discuss additional objectives, feedback

With the exception of the bi lateral stimulation, all the other stages are used in certain existing NLP, mindfulness and hypnotherapy processes. Bilateral stimulation and eye movement are used in certain hypnosis and NLP processes.

What can EMDR type therapy help with?

Basic EMDR is used for PTSD and single event trauma. Basic EMDR can be used to process a series or combination of traumas over time. Analytical hypnosis, NLP, and regression processes almost indistinguishable from EMDR, with or without eye movement have been used for decades before the “discovery” of EMDR.

Relational EMDR is designed to tackle more complex cases, and cumulative PSTD, such as abuse survivors who have had multiple incidents and traumas over time. Analytical hypnosis, NLP, and regression processes almost indistinguishable from EMDR, with or without eye movement have been used for decades before the “discovery” of EMDR.

Who provides Relational EMDR type therapy?

Stuart is a fully accredited psychotherapist who has taken Master Class CPD training in relational EMDR for psychotherapists (see competences page).  This advanced training contained nothing not already covered in Stuart’s existing extensive psychotherapy, NLP and hypnotherapy training, even bilateral eye movement stimulation. He is also accredited in hypnotherapy and is very experienced in trauma work, having been in clinical practice for over 25 years. Stuart provides relational analytical hypnotherapy process almost indistinguishable from EMDR.

Stuart is not an “EMDR practitioner”, he is a fully accredited psychotherapist and hypnotherapist with CPD training in Relational EMDR and Integrative Complex PTSD Body Mind Psychotherapy. Stuart is a Certified Clinical Trauma Practitioner (CCTP), and a Certified Clinical Anxiety Treatment Professional (CCATP), both international standards set by experts, requiring competency in treating these issues in a wide holistic range of ways. Stuart’s training and certification allows him to use EMDR in the context of his psychotherapy work.

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